Following questions are asked by my conscience:
Q1: Do you have choices?
Me: Yes, I do have. (Discover)
Q2: Do you have confusion in choosing them?
Me: Hm. Sort of. (Deciding)
Q3: Do you believe that what you choose will be the optimum?
Me: Hopefully yes. (Do/Being)
The third takes a clear assumption that if I know my capabilities I can anytime optimize my top two. So, I always convince myself simply not to decide in advance. Let first try it out. Try "Being" with the utmost efforts. Take decisions with best experiences (others+yours) and never loose hope. A person himself creates his luck. His decisions make him lucky. His own steps give rise to a thought labelled as "Luck".
Before choosing anything you always plan and discover the "Thinking phase". This is mostly the most worried phase. You passes with lot of confusion, many filters, many suggestion, examples come in mind and sometime after experiencing all this you feel you are still in that same state.
Next comes the "Deciding phase". With confusion to choose, you fear to decide. This happens because you just don't want to face any odd situation happening intentionally or unintentionally. My Dad always ask me to never loose hope because hard work is always worth and learning never fails. So, step-up, re-think and re-decide once you get the taste of failure.
The third is "Being". You just begin with your conscience and guidance of your mentors. Once my faculty said that too much of futuristic thinking is also not good. One should not spend more time to start a single thing rather take decision and start being in it. You will save your time and post-facto you will learn from "the state of Being".
Q4. What should I do after "Being" in that?
Me: Help and let others explore their "Being". (Dedicate)
To elaborate my point of Q4 I am sharing below the message I wrote to the newly formed CSI-LNMIIT Council (2017-18) as it's past-Chairperson.
Hello All, Congratulations !!!
Now, "New members" will get their holds of
our growing family. You will now explore the responsibilities,
relationships, commitment and much more in which you need to have your utmost
dedication. In the plethora of upcoming leanings keep 3 things in mind-
"Said by our Honorable Prime Minister Mr. Narendra
Modi in his speeches twice: 1. after winning national Elections 2014; 2. after
winning UP elections in 2017"-
- Work
with Accountability: Say it be finance or it be any discussion, you must
be able to justify/record every moment of it. In this way no one can have
a second thought and will faith in your working. Don't be verbal at least
take signature or a replying mail in approvals.
- Don't
have the Wrong Intention: Learning is a process, we all learn from our
mistakes. So, committing few mistakes at first attempt is fine but the
intention toward none of the mistake should be wrong. There may happen
some confusion/diversity/hard-times during the entire tenure. Keeping the
positive will up, try to resolve those as your intention were to
improve/better it. We should never have second thought for our work, colleagues
and guides. They are always respectable.
- Hard
Work to the Ultimate Limit: We all are aware of our Prime Minister's
working schedule. You guys are benefited more because of the excelling and
hard work of previous councils. Try to keep that spirit up with your
innovations, energy and togetherness. No one should be considered
senior-junior by post. One day work will speak for you. Just justify as much
as possible the work you are allotted.
NOTE: Take care of your health and academics too in
all these busy-ness.
Wish you all the best for future endevours. Feel
free to reach me anytime. Always there with CSI.
Pushkal
(2015-16 Council)
